Gosh I have not written my blog in such a long time , should I call it a commitment to myself or what I learnt at R and D today.
Wow such a long two weeks. I work in a very stressful environment so two weeks of continuously being yelled at and blamed for things gone wrong sometime you just stress out and that is what happened. Too many things gone wrong and things gone even wronger but now that is over. I often wonder when I talk how much stress I am under but I leave that in the office in Ohio and go home and then it starts all over again. So I got into a heated discussion with my son and we both said mean things to each other but that is a dance we do , he and I are both used to it , anyway that is life , wrote some apology emails and now we are cool .
The worse part of losing weight is not the loss of eating what you want but the actual shrinking of clothes. Now I have only managed to lose 28 pounds and my pants are falling off. Which is not cool The other day my friend asked me why I did get so fat, well I am not going to blame others I ate and that is who I am , when you lose so many jobs you kind get depressed and start eating , and food is the best friend when you have stress. It is hard for me to manage stress but I must be on to something great as emotional eating is one of the greatest gig out there as so many people over eat
So watched the good wife with the three words , so what is wrong in telling someone you love them , so Will tells Alicia that “ I love you “ at the end of the conversation , and I got to blogging, why is saying I love you such a deal breaker , I had friends who thought that if they said I love you the relationship would be over but for some it ended and for some it did ,so it was not true love, so what is true love, is it financial security or is it social status. Looking at the Indian culture I have never heard one Indian person tell me that they have told someone that they loved them. I asked ram, nikunj and anil at my work today if they had ever said to their wives if they loved them and they said are you kidding , we have arranged marriage, we stay together for social status and duty , of course we love each other, I asked them if they had a choice would they marry their wives and they said nothing for all of us have a type , so what is love I learned the real meaning of love. Love is absolute loyalty. People fade, looks fade, but loyalty never fades. You can depend so much on certain people, you can set your watch by them. And that’s love, even if it doesn’t seem very exciting
Without love, what are we worth? Eighty-nine cents! Eighty-nine cents worth of chemicals walking around lonely, Trip over love, you can get up. Fall in love and you fall forever
Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a lonely garden when the flowers are dead. The consciousness of loving and being loved brings a warmth and a richness to life that nothing else can bring.
So what is about love,
In my meeting today one of my co-workers was telling me that he was going on a honeymoon and I am like ok, so we discussed kids and then he asked me if I was married, I said no , and he said why , well I said never found anyone again that I was in love in so he told me his love story. He was in love with a girl in Poland forty years ago but he was a student and came to America to study and to cut the long story short married other people and then got divorced and then ran into each other via my space, he said to me that he was 45 and while talking to her he felt he was 17 again and the only thing he wanted to was to be with her and now he is going on a honey moon with her as life is short
Life is short that is why you need to enjoy every minute of it, life is not about money or iPods.
When life knocks you down, try to land on your back. Because if you can look up, you can get up. Let your reason get you back up.
Love gives meaning to our lives – as do friendship, or art or faith in God. These are factors of true happiness, of inner peace, of feelings of harmony, allowing meaning to our existence.
But there is the other side. There is the cruelty of life, the pain, the evil, not to talk of death. They are the hidden tigers, ambushed and ready to attack the imprudent, to use an image present in the Buddhist Scriptures. Is between these pendulums – the positive, the one that gives happiness and meaning, and the negative – that our lives are lived. And when we meditate about all that, we arrive at a diverse and disagreeing set of thoughts about the Happiness is to be happy in love, unhappiness is to be unhappy in love, or to have no love at all.
It is love which keeps us alive, since it alone makes life loveable. It is love which saves; it is therefore love which must be saved meaning and purpose of life.
So live your life as
When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice.