what is love,maybe defined


I was watching the son’s pictures with his girlfriend on facebook and did not know whether to be embarrassed or give him the riot act but then I looked at them and thought , now why would his girlfriend post pictures of him and her making out on facebook.,then thought, wow young love and then what is love

Yes what is love, countless songs have been written about it but what is it exactly, ask ten different people and you will ten million answers. We all say we love our kids, I am not talking about that for there are days I wonder what is up with my son and wonder on my love for him but that is what imperfect mothers also do for imperfect sons

I often tell others that the  cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall when he doesn’t have an intention of catching her.and is that not true at times but then being stupid together is that love ?? but one falls in love love not knowing why or how. It’s a very special feeling You just love no matter how stupid you become as long as it does not have regrets. Or talking from an engineer point of view one plus one equals everything or two minus one means nothing . Love is an adventure , a friendship on steroids and being in love is being  in state of constant euphoria

Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it…It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk everything, you risk even more or True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations: it is seen with white hairs and is always young in the heart

There is no right person or a perfect person it is about seeing the perfection in an imperfect person, do not know how love cum arranged fits in this

Ever wonder why the heart is on the left side of the body and is at s the center of our chest but it beats at the left side. I guess that’s the reason why the heart isn’t always right.

Oftentimes we say goodbye to the one we love without wanting to but that doesn’t mean we stop loving them. Sometimes goodbye is just a painful way of saying I love you

Falling for someone the first time is easy. It’s the second time around, after you have fallen and trusted someone to catch you and they didn’t, when it becomes difficult to let yourself fall again

It is tough to stay single in this world where everybody expects you to be with somebody. What they fail to realize is that staying single is not about having no choice. Rather, it’s an opportunity to make intelligent choices. I am not rushing into falling in love for love never runs out. Even if all  make fun of me  cause I am  single, I  tell them this, “God’s just busy creating the right love story that will sweep me off my feet!”

Ever notice how when you’re depressed or emotionally drained, that your heartbeat is stronger than normal? At times it seems as if it’s going to beat right though your chest. It’s your heart’s way of letting you know that it’s still there. It may have been broken, it may have been ripped out of your chest and stepped on but it till holds life. And eventually, it will beat strong and love again

Sometimes you think when they say that it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Who can say what’s better when your heart becomes the cost? But it is not Love that makes the world go around , it is love that makes the ride worthwhile

The greatest compliment you can pay to a person you love is to have children and family with them not because you have to but because you want to

Or quoting woody allen

To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you’re getting this down.”
– Woody Allen

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  1. Pingback: Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away. | Inside Out Cafe

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