What is love maybe defined

I was talking to Debbie Downer yesterday and were talking of romance, I was joking with her that her idea of romance was washing dishes , I was going to write about a sad story but thought why ruin the weekend

I was joking but then thought ok so what is romance


Yesterday I defined what love is , just in a nutshell again When you’re in love you never really know whether your elation comes from the qualities of the one you love, or if it attributes them to him ; whether the light which surrounds him like a halo comes from you, from him, or from the meeting of your sparks,


like I said yesterday it is finding perfection in an imperfect person, it is not that love is blind but is because we all know the faults but we chose to love the person irrespective of that however a jerk he may be So what is romance, men and women are wired different in this aspect or even women are wired different  , there is no set rule of what one finds romantic , for example I love surprise , everyone I love gets a surprise , there is the valentine bear, easter bunny, birthday fairy, and then of course santa claus, but it would be nice to get a surprise  back.

Straight to the point, what does romance mean to a woman and what does it mean to a man. For men, romance is a means to an end and the end is almost always physical. Men are engineers by nature. They are the builder-uppers and tear’er-downers of our species. For a man, romance presents a challenge, a mountain to be climbed, a part that needs fixed and a race that is dangerous and threatening. Romance is an enemy that must be conquered.

In other words romance mean you care Practical things are not romantic at least for me , who finds a toaster romantic but nothing makes a relationship more romantic than giving pet names that makes others throw up,

I don’t pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.\

Famous people have said on romance

Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect. It means that you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections.

Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control over.

If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.

Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning.

When you smiled you had my undivided attention. When you laughed you had my urge to laugh with you. When you cried you had my urge to hold you. When you said you loved me, you had my heart forever


It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone – but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

True love doesn’t have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.



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